It looks like you're poised to put the finishing touches on something that will last a very long time -- an expression or creation that will be a defining monument to your essential self. If I'm right and you're really ready, let me offer a suggestion. This masterpiece should not only reflect what's excellent and successful about you; it should also acknowledge the role that your failures have played in growing your beauty.
Sounds good. I'll look for that defining monument. Certainly I have no shortage of basically gainful failures that I can point at. It's been kind of a theme.